One thing I see happen a lot, in response to women having boundaries and standards, and refusing to settle for men who are abusive or who do not protect and provide, is a lot of BITTER incel men leaving comments or remarks like “yeah. enjoy your cats!!”

Like, huh?? Is that supposed to be an insult or something?!
What do these incels really have against these cute, fluffy little bundles of joy, God’s creation….cats?!

I had a cat before I got married, as did my husband. Having a cat did not taint my singlehood. Similarly to my husband, my cat provided companionship and something I could nurture and care for.

In fact, having a pet such as a cat, is a good thing and a green flag for singles, in my opinion. It shows that that person has a living creature that they are capable of caring for and they are not desperate to rush into any old type of relationship just to have companionship or to care for a living creature.

Over a decade of marriage and the loss of one cat later, my husband and I are now a family with children, a cat, and a dog.
Do these incel insults about cats still apply when it is a married person that has a cat??!

And what about the many nuns and priests in religious orders, and even popes, who have cats as pets?! Are they too of lesser value or damaged in some way??!

Okay, I really want a prayer kitten now!!

I mean, we Catholics even have a patron saint of cats, St Gertrude of Nivelles, whose feast day is on March 17th.

Is this holy saint of less value too??

Why do these incel red pill men villify cats so much?
Only cold, unemotional psychopaths are against pets, including cats.

It is a mark of empathy to be able to care for and nurture a living thing that you are not obliged to ie that is not your child.

In fact, so much so, that I consider it a red flag if a single man has no pets prior to marriage. If he is unwilling or incapable of caring for vulnerable small animals, that same attitude will be expressed towards you in dating and marriage.

He’ll be the type that won’t care for you or look after you when you are ill, pregnant or post partum.

It’s always nice to have a small domestic animal to care, whether single or not, and it’s a feature of a caregiving, nurturing person, especially in women. A woman having a pet like a cat is a very feminine trait.

I have also observed that men who have pets when single and care for them tend to be very caring and nurturing towards their wives and kids.
My husband’s behaviour towards me confirms it. He is very caring and protective of me, and has no problems caring for me, cooking and so on when I’m ill, going through a bad pregnancy period or need a little extra TLC.

Again, why do these loser incel red pill throw the cat insult at single women??
Generally, women are more likely to have cats as pets as they tend to be fairly low maintenance compared to dogs, and you can easily leave them alone while you go out to work.
This is precisely why cats are targeted so much by these loser red pill incels. If women were more likely to choose, say parrots or dogs, they would vilify these animals exactly the same way they vilify cats.

When these incel red pill throw the ‘cats’ insults at women, what they REALLY MEAN is this:

“I am very angry and enraged that you pour so much love and attention into a cat, when you should be pouring all that love, care and attention INTO ME!”
That is really what it is – they are jealous………OF A CAT!

Also, the cat insult is truly not the burn that they think it is.

A woman choosing to have a cat over an exploitative and abusive relationship is really saying that most of these men are so worthless and useless, have so little value, and are such a burden that apparently, ACCORDING TO THESE MEN, women would rather choose cats …….OVER THEM.

They are literally admitting that they bring no single value whatsoever to a woman’s life, and she would rather choose a cat ……over them!!

Ponder that for a moment.

They throw the cat insult at single women (even though not all single women have pets or even cats) because they realise the reality of their own value – LESS THAN A CAT!!

Like I said, the cat thing that these guys always bring up is not the burn or insult that they think it, and they should honestly be ashamed to publicly embarrass themselves this way by acknowledging that women prefer cats ……..over them.

If a guy ever fixes his mouth to throw the cats insult at you or tell you that you will grow old and alone with cats simply because you refuse to date and marry a man who is lacking in virtue, be sure to do this:

Point out to him how pathetic it is that he is jealous of a cat,
Tell him that what he is actually saying is that he has less value than a cat and women would rather choose cats than date him.
Tell him “if it is good enough for St. Gertrude, as well as popes and countless nuns, priests and monks, it is good enough for me!”

Married or single people with cats, there’s no shame in having a cat
You are in good company.

Keep your cat and also keep having boundaries and standards, and living a life of virtue.

St. Cat Lady aka St Gertrude of Nivelles, pray for us, meow and fur-ever.

ad Jesum per Mariam

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2 thoughts on “Red Pill Incels And Their Cats Insults To Single Women”

“pray for us, meow and fur-ever”

I LOVE IT!!! 🙂 🙂 :-) That’s purr-fect. 🙂

I had two cats when I got married. One I rescued as a kitten from a parking lot. I took it home and bottlefed it. I had just been dumped by a boyfriend I had liked and it was very theraputic for me. Later my mother thought he needed a friend (she wasn’t very knowledgable about cats being solitary; we had always been more of a dog family) and we got another from the pound. The one from the pound was very willful and adventurous and unfortunately “adventured” herself right in front of a car. The one I raised from a kitten died of old age. While we had the one cat, we adopted an elderly dog that was in risk of being put down; a sweet old thing that just needed a quiet home to live out his last days. He lived three years and died at the ripe old age of 17. Old for a dog.

We now have a young energetic dog that is great for my teenage sons. I was opposed to getting a dog because with every pet we had it always ended up being my responsibility to take care of it — everybody swore to the skies that they’d do their bit, and it was always me. We had several extremely difficult situations in which a dog did something, I got blamed, or the last time I had had it and said I was removing the dog from the house — I gave in this time, and the dog is so loving. He’s utterly devoted to everyone and I find him so comforting given that my husband refuses intimacy and we have no relationship worth mentioning. At least I have the dog. It’s at least another living creature you can hug and pet and cuddle. Very helpful when your children have all grown and there’s no baby to love and snuggle anymore — and your husband can’t be bothered…

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