Catholic Veil Colours For Mass

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One of the questions I have received from a lot of people who watched my video on Veiling is whether certain veil colours are to be worn for various liturgical events.

Some people have also stated that married women should only wear black veils and unmarried women and girls should wear white veils.

In all honesty, there are no Biblical or Catechetical specifications on what veil colours should be worn, when or by whom.

The most important thing is that a woman veils in presence of Christ.

The idea of married women wearing black veils and unmarried females wearing white veils comes from Spanish, Italian and Latina cultures and traditions.

It is not necessarily a Biblical or Catholic tradition and as veiling is an instruction given by God BEFORE Spanish, Latin and Italian cultures came into being, I do not think it is imperative to follow the veiling traditions of these cultures.

Some people have also denounced women wearing coloured veils or veils in metallic shades like gold or silver, labelling them as being prideful or ostentatious.

Personally, I think this is ridiculous and taking modesty a little too far.

As women, we should be modest, yes, of course!

However, modesty does not mean we are to be frumpy, dowdy or dull in appearance. Quite the contrary!

In fact, femininity and part of being a woman entail dressing in bright, feminine, beautiful shades and fabrics – with moderation!!

In the natural order, it is unacceptable for a man to wear bright, flowery clothing.

Men should be dressed like men …… in sombre, dignified clothing and shades.

This is why it feels off to see a man wearing a pink or yellow suit, but it is acceptable for a woman to wear clothing in shades of pink, yellow or other colours.

Suppressing our femininity goes against God’s Will.

God who made us female expects us to express our femininity, within reasonable boundaries, because it glorifies Him.ย  Through women and our femininity, His beauty is reflected.ย  Through men and their masculinity, His strength is reflected.

It is therefore okay to wear bright, happy, fun, feminine colours in your clothing.

It is fun to be a girl.ย  It shows a clear difference between your femininity and the masculinity of men.

As with all things, modesty and moderation should be observed.

So while it is acceptable to wear 3inch high heels to Church or out and about, it is immoderate to wear 6inch stilettos, you get me?

Okay, back to veil colours.

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As long as the veil is not a major distraction, ie covered with feathers, jingly bells or a kaleidoscope of bright colours etc, I see no reason why you cannot wear a veil in any colour you desire.

Some people who are new to veiling may be very self-conscious in a white veil, especially if they are in a Novus Ordo parish.
In that case, wearing a black or brown veil or a veil in a shade close to your natural hair colour can help you feel less conspicuous.

You wear different clothes and shoes in different shades and colours when you attend Sunday Mass, don’t you?ย  I do not see why veiling should be any different.

Some people, like me, enjoy changing their veils to suit certain liturgical events.

I also think it is a great way to evangelise the issue of veiling itself, the colours and the liturgical feasts attached to them.

 

 

Here is a summary of how I veil throughout the year.

MARIAN FEAST DAYS:

Our Lady’s colour is blue, so it makes sense for me to wear a blue veil on Her feast day, especially if it is a Holy Day of Obligation.

Depending on which Marian Feast it is, I would either wear a deep blue veil or a soft blue veil.

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ORDINARY TIME:

The colour for Ordinary Time is green.

I do not wear green veils, but I would wear either a black veil or a dark brown veil close to my hair colour.ย  During the summer months, I might even wear a white veil.

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ADVENT AND LENT:

The colour for these liturgical periods is purple or violet – NOT lavender.

During these periods, I wear a purple coloured veil or a black veil, usually in an infinity style.

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GAUDETE SUNDAY AND LAETARE SUNDAY:

Rose is the colour of the day, so I break out my rose-coloured veil for these Sundays.

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CHRISTMAS AND EASTER:

Gold veils are most appropriate for these.

I might also wear a cream-coloured veil at Easter.

FEASTS OF THE PASSION OF JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT:

As the colour for these occasions is red, I like to wear a deep red or burgundy-coloured veil.

 

ADORATION:

I switch between a black or a white veil for Adoration.

 

FUNERALS:

My go-to veil for Catholic funerals is black, of course, and preferably in an infinity style.

 

 

WEDDINGS:

I do not feel too comfortable wearing white veils at a Catholic wedding because the bride is usually in white.
So, for these occasions, I would wear a pretty silver veil.

It is not white, but the metallic shade is still celebratory and does not upstage the bride.

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Now, what about you?ย  Do you prefer to change up your veil colour or do you stick to one shade?

 

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12 thoughts on “Catholic Veil Colours For Mass

  1. Thank you for this info. I feel so strange to wear a black veil to mass. But I want too. I don’t know what all the older ladies will say its not a funeral, its mass..but I’m going to try. I love your point of view.

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  2. I prefer to wear black veils/headcoverings as many lighter colors make me look even more pale than I already am. I am one of few if any in my parish that wears something on my head, and learned to not worry about what others think or say. I will simply point them to 1 Corinthians 11 if they want to know the practice is based in scripture.

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  3. Thank you for this post! I bought a white veil and that’s all I’ve ever worn. We go to a Novus Ordo parish … right now, and I’m the only one that veils. But I’ve gotten quite used to the stares and pray that by humbling myself before Christ, other women might follow.

    I was also wondering, if you have more than one, how do you store them! I wanted to get another color(or two;)) but am unsure how to store them nicely.

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    1. You are welcome, Rochelle!
      Re storage: I am not too sure about others, but I personally store mine in the veil bag that they come in.

      I wouldn’t know know whether or not that is the right way to store, and maybe other readers can chime in with their own tips.

      God bless!

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  4. I would like to wear veil depending on the season but only white veil is available here in the Philippines. Sadly, I can’t afford to buy online.

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    1. Dear Belle,

      I feel exactly the same as you do living in Mexico. There are no veils at all here, not even white ones, and the people I know of who veil get theirs from Spain – expensive! I can’t afford to buy online either.

      So, I went to my local seamstress. It turns out that she has tons and tons of laced fabric in different colours for dresses that she makes. I showed her pictures of mantillas and veils, and in less than an hour I had my first veil done! It’s a black one, fairly similar to the one pictured above. She only charged me the equivalent to $6 USD, fabric and handiwork included. At such a low price, I want to follow Paige’s suggestions for coloured veils, and have one done before each Liturgical season.

      I hope you can find a similar solution.

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  5. Dear Miss Paige,

    Thank you for your detailed article in veil colours. I was brought up to wear a white or off-white veil for church all year round. I haven’t changed my habits since and feel that making a simple act of humility and reverence is best done without making it into too much of a choice. I have seen others wearing other colours, and they look lovely. But for me, whenever my veil is pinned on, I feel the presence of Our Lord around me like a shield for my femininity. It also guards against visual distractions around me, helping me to focus my attention both visually and in my heart.

    I am interested to hear other views

    Thank you again for your website

    In Mary’s name

    Charlotte

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    1. Dear Charlotte,

      I completely agree with your last two sentences. I feel the exact same way when I veil.
      This is one of the reasons why I love infinity veils. Itโ€™s like Iโ€™m having a special, private time with Jesus at the Mass. it feels more intimate and helps cut down distractions.

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