Here is why I believe the Barbie film to be toxic feminist trash.

It continues the narrative that women have to be boss babes, be ultra independent, be perfect aka be mules, do everything, be everything, and that men can be “just Ken” – lazy, underachieving, lacking in leadership, protective, or providing energy.

The Barbie film doesn’t just condition women and young girls to be ultra amazing and do EVERYTHING (how exhausting!), but to also find it perfectly okay to go for men who do nothing, who are not leaders, men who you have to be fixer-uppers for. It has literally perverted and inverted the roles of masculinity and femininity, masculinising women and feminising men, while also emasculating men and wearing women down to the ground. It is truly demonic

It glamourises self-abuse of women and the destruction of true feminine energy, while coating this aberration in a veneer of sparkles and glitz and OMG!! pink everything!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩

It is poison coated in sugar.

This mindset seeping into society is why high-achieving, successful women continue to accept and tolerate passive men, men that they do everything for, and to be in relationships that they (not the man) lead.
But predatory men gladly take advantage of this. They are happy for you to do everything, pay on dates, pursue and chase them, pay for everything, and lead the relationship. However, they cannot escape their inner masculine nature, so they are secretly resentful of you, and in an attempt to reclaim and express their inherent masculinity, they take it out on you – they lash out, abuse you, take you down several pegs, sabotage your career and finances, drain you of your resources, cheat on you, exploit you and then throw you away.
Just Ken isn’t Just Ken – he is an effeminate dangerous ticking timebomb.

This is why as a woman, even if you are a successful high-achieving boss babe, reserve that energy for your career. When dealing with men outside of work or with a potential romantic partner, pull way back.
Do not chase him; don’t initiate texts or messaging, never suggest a date, never pay or go 50-50 on dates…..
Pull back and give him space to lead you, and if he is not leading, initiating and so on, he is either so effeminate that he is unfit for relationships anyway or he is an exploitative predator who is looking for a fixer-upper mommy that he can use and unleash his bitterness and hatred of women upon.

Barbie is not the ideal or ultimate woman; our Lady is, and she is our model of femininity and womanhood. This is why I shared those memes of Our Lady as the preferred ‘Barbie’ on the TCF social media. Some people missed the point entirely and thought I was being disrespectful by comparing her to Barbie, but I was trying to show that Barbie is not our model for femininity and womanhood, our Lady – she is our Barbie!!

And to the TCF men who are reading this post, please do not ever be “Just Ken”
God created you to be something much more!  He created you to be protectors and leaders, to be MEN whom the rest of the world can look up to and respect.

Our Lady, model of femininity and womanhood, pray for us.

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